Assalamualaikum miss tutti red pooh fruity.
what?hahah you shuld be wondering right who's that tutti red pooh~
its my blog name =)
nice name right~ hehe

ok.. last few days ago.. someone asked me ..
zulaikha.. what topic shuld i update on my blog..
sooo.. i just random choose and said to that person..
y not u share about marriage~
izit it interesting topic ... =)

SINCE i dont have any ideas what im gonna post and share to u all~
so i make up my mind that im gonna update and share to u all about ...
MARRIAGE TOOO *senyum gatal*


ermmm.. but i not really know what im gonna say abt this things..
basically.. marriage is not an easy task or small problem fr me..
people might said to me " jangan pikir sangt tentang duit.. insya Allah nnt ada rejeki yaa* yes im agree and really2 agree with this..
but... there are too many stuffs u need to settle down before marriage..
and the main thing is *PREPARATION*

Before you get married you need to not only make sure you are marrying the right person,look at the pros and cons of living together~Of course ... there are more than issues and also problem that you shuld consider before making the decision to spend the rest of your life with someone that you loved. But after u are pretty sure you found the right person and getting married for the right reasons.. Allahmdulillah u gonna have happy marriage =)

kalau kita sebut aja mengenai perkahwinan.. pasti pokok soalan yang akan dibangkitkn adalah mengenai *WANG* ataupun beberapa dialog yg sering kali kedengaran~

contoh :

*ni nk kawin.. kerja tk tetap.. nk kasi anak kau makan ape? pasir?
*da cukup ke duit nk lamar org...
*tak apa rezeki kn ada di mana-mana*
ataupun..
*i nk kahwin muda.. jodoh da sampai*
*bagus la.. belajar sambil mengandung.. nnt anak i bijak*

hahah marriage is not easy like ABC ..
Even the smallest thing kalau kita dapat hurai kn.. can be a biggest thing..
for example.. being a mother is not easy as we think..
*bab jaga anak*
mom : syg meh eat this food.
and you think that ur kids gonna come to u and urm that food?
noooo.... if they are hungry.. if nottt...
mom: ok cepat.. i count to ten.. eat this.. later after eat mommy will buy fr u toys.. kereta control ey u want?
den there she go and eat.. ITS REALLY HARD~
and besides this all!!!! u need to ion ur husband cloth.. prepare breakfast and sooo on..everyday! 0.0

anddddd the most important this..
we need to trust and understand each other~ alalalala.. so sweet right.. *crying*
trust are important key to achieve happiness in marriage..
just imagine kalau tk ada trust..
sooo hardddd... everythings ur husband do gonna be wrong...
*syg asl balik lmbt! u ada perumpuan lain kn.. i da agak daa.. cerai kn i *
and your husband like * krik krik krik *
girls are to emotional and boys u need to take note abt this ~

nevertheless... well plan before marriage is the most important things..
lists all the things that you gonna do or whatever..
-how many kids do you want.
-dekat mana kita nk tinggl..
-adakah kereta perlu untuk kita?
-when where who we gonna invite on our day?
and lots more.. to many things that we gonna do and plan..

and lastly.. im always question to myself ..
mcm mana org yg mengandung ,hav kids, husband can really pecahkn masa drg ey..
ermmmm just wondering ...helping by their maid?opps sorry i tk nk pakai maid =)
hehhehe
ps: i just want to see one of my family's member kawin...abg or kakak cepat laa...
sekali aku ey.. kalau da jodoh.. apa salah nyaa.. heheh eip!!
*winkz*